Tuesday, August 7, 2007

Everything was going well, so what happenned?!?!

Q & A

Dear High Level Game,

I went out with a girl last night with whom I have a lot of chemistry. It went alright, but unfortunately, nothing happened. My escalation was weak, although part of that was due to the fact that I didn’t want to force anything unnaturally—especially given the fact that we work together (bad idea, I know). In hindsight, I realize was inside my head for awhile at the coffee shop (figuring out how to close the deal rather than vibing), but she did seem to have fun and came inside before and after (although I couldn’t get her to stay and watch the short film I had told her about, which was where I had planned to make my move). My failure to close recently is becoming very frustrating—this is the third girl who’s come to my apartment on the late night in the last few months that I have failed to do anything with any one of them despite the presence of attraction, and in my co-worker’s case, comfort even—not to mention it’s something I’ve done numerous times before in my life. I am open to any advice/thoughts you have.

--RR, Kansas City, MO

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